'About' vs. 'With'

So I just want to write a short note on this topic. While its a rather simple and self-explanatory topic, its something thats been on my mind for a while now, so I thought it was about time to blog about it. And what's been on my mind is the notion of 'talking about God' vs. 'spending time with God'. I feel very often, although perhaps this is just me, that it is very easy to get these two muddled up and perhaps substitute one for the other.
Now I am absolutely not saying that we should not talk about God - no! It is absolutely wonderful that we do talk about God. He made us too. If I didn't believe that I wouldn't write this blog! In fact God made churches with fellow Christians with whom we can discuss such things and gave us pastors who can teach us about Him and His word. It is very important, in fact, that we do talk about God.
However, it is key that talking about God, doesn't define our spiritual life by itself. What do I mean by this? I mean, as I pointed out in an earlier post, that Christianity is about a relationship. We need to spend time with God, not just talking about Him. Time praying, and reading His word. It can be easy to get caught up in the hype of it all - talking about God or singing about Him. However, it's important that our hearts are in the right place too, and that we constantly are spending time with Him. He wants us to know Him deeply and to be so close to Him because He loves us so very much.